Forever based on a file: The emotional complexity of adopting without meeting the child
If you’re in the proposal package or family finding stage of adoption and struggling to wrap your head around committing to “forever” with a child based only on a profile or file, you are not alone. This is one of the most tender and complex moments in the adoption journey. It’s the point where hope […]
Preparing to navigate the school system as a waiting parent
For many waiting parents, it can feel both exciting and overwhelming to imagine a future child’s first day of school. You may not yet know your child’s exact needs or strengths, but you can still prepare yourself for what lies ahead. The BC education system offers many supports, but it can also feel complicated — […]
Intentional waiting: Preparation ideas for adoptive parents
The waiting season can be a powerful time to build knowledge, nurture relationships, and gently prepare your home and heart. Here’s a list of things to consider adding to your personal preparation plan. Connection and community Emotional and mental wellness Learning and self-education Reading list suggestions: Podcast suggestions: Practical readiness Understanding support systems Respite, play, […]
Tax matters: How to claim the adoption tax credit
It’s everyone’s favourite time of year again—tax time! In this article, adoptive dad and financial professional John Hakkarainen explains the nuts and bolts of Line 313. What is the adoption tax credit and why it is important? My children often tell me that my jokes are taxing! I am hoping that the guide below helps […]
Where are all the babies?
One of the most common questions our Family Support Specialist get is “Where are all the babies?” Heather Ratzlaff, former Family Support team member had this to say on the topic. In Canada today, contraceptives, abortion, and support for expectant and single mothers are more widely available than ever before. This has led to fewer available infants. […]
A waiting parent’s plea
Inspiration from Alberta For 32 years, Alberta has profiled children in need of adoption on their weekly Wednesday’s Child TV program. For 12 years, the province has also successfully profiled “harder to place” children on a public website. These campaigns regularly generate new applications from potential parents who go on to be matched with waiting […]
When forever comes
“Imagine being married to someone for eight years, and then being told that you have to get a divorce and some stranger will choose your new spouse. Then imagine moving in with that person after only knowing them for a little while. What if they don’t like you, or you don’t like them — what […]