Here, we answer some of the most common questions we get about adoption.
If I want to adopt from foster care, do I have to start as a foster parent? I can’t imagine having to give back a child I love.
Many adoptions from foster care don’t involve fostering the child first. After being matched for adoption, the child moves from their foster family directly to an adoption placement with their new family.
Lots of foster parents eventually adopt one (or more) of their foster children. Foster parents make great adoptive parents! But there is no such thing as “foster to adopt” in BC.
How can I adopt a healthy baby or toddler? I’ve waited so long to have a baby, will I have to wait longer?
There are very few newborns and infants available to adopt in BC. Most kids waiting for adoption are school-aged or older; in sibling groups; and/or have special placement needs.
The application and approval process is a very important step in the adoption journey. It helps make sure that the match is right for everyone. Yes, it can take two or more years, but these kids are worth the wait!
I want to adopt my stepchild. What do I do?
Most stepchild adoptions in BC can proceed directly through the courts. You will need a lawyer to assist you, but the process is usually straightforward.
Ask your AFABC Family Support Worker to email you the stepparent adoption package.
Depending on their age, your stepchild may need to sign a consent or be interviewed by a professional. You may also want to involve your Indigenous community or band, if applicable.
I’ve heard that adopting internationally or through an agency means that my child is less likely to have special needs. Is that true?
All adoptions come with risks and unknowns.
No matter what type of adoption you choose, your child may have health issues, prenatal substance exposure, trauma, or other challenges.
In BC, only adoptions from foster care qualify for special supports and funding like Post Adoption Assistance. These supports can help you meet your child’s unique needs.
More questions about adoption? View Adoption step-by-step, read our Adoption FAQ page, or contact our Family Support team today!
